Airline Etiquette 101: The Unwritten Rules of Flying
- Wendy Fracchia

Airline Etiquette 101: The Unwritten Rules of Flying ✈️
As we’ve been helping many of our guests book flights for upcoming escorted tours, we’ve noticed something surprising — more and more people are willing to spend more on their flights than the entire tour itself! Crazy, right? It seems travelers are saying loud and clear that they value comfort during those 72-ish hours in the air just as much as the 10–12 days they’ll spend exploring their destination.
We get it — air travel can already be stressful. Tight connections, long security lines, limited legroom, and unpredictable delays can make getting from point A to B a challenge. But the feedback we’re hearing most often isn’t just about the journey itself — it’s about the people sitting around you. So maybe it’s time we all revisit the Golden Rule of Flying: treat others the way you’d like to be treated. A little courtesy goes a long way in making air travel more enjoyable for everyone on board. And yes, there really is such a thing as unspoken airline etiquette!
Here are a few quick reminders to help keep the friendly skies… well, friendly:
🚫 Skip the Smelly Foods
<Yes, that tuna sandwich or garlic pizza might sound like the perfect travel snack, but inside a pressurized cabin, smells linger and spread quickly. If you wouldn’t want to smell it for hours, neither will your neighbors. Stick to light, neutral foods and save the strong stuff for after landing.
💺 The Armrest Debate
Who gets the armrests? General rule of thumb:
- Window seat gets the view and the wall.
- Aisle seat gets the extra space and easy access.
- Middle seat gets both armrests, it’s the least comfortable spot, and this small courtesy helps balance things out.
🔄 Reclining with Respect
Seats recline, so you’re allowed to use the feature but with mindfulness. Before reclining:
- Take a quick glance behind you to make sure your neighbor isn’t eating or working on a laptop.
- Recline slowly rather than slamming back.
- Remember: it’s a shared space, not a personal lounge chair.
🧳 Overhead Bin Courtesy
Space is limited, so:
- Place your larger items in the bin and smaller bags under the seat in front of you.
- Don’t hog extra space by putting coats or purses in bins before everyone boards.
- Keep your items in your section, nobody wants to walk to row 25 for their carry-on if they’re seated in row 10.
🔊 Keep It Down
From music and movies to phone calls, sound carries in a cabin. Always use headphones and keep the volume at a respectful level. If traveling with kids, bringing activities and headphones for them can make the flight easier for everyone.
👣 Feet Off the Furniture
Shoes off? Fine, as long as your feet stay on the floor and not on the seat, armrest, or wall. Nobody wants to be eye level with someone’s toes.
🎒 Boarding and Deplaning
Board when your group is called and step aside quickly to let others pass. When the plane lands, avoid rushing ahead unless you have a tight connection. Remember everyone is trying to get off, and patience goes a long way.
The Bottom Line
Air travel is as much a mental challenge as it is a physical one — but a little courtesy can transform a challenging flight into a pleasant journey. Be mindful of those around you, practice kindness, and remember that everyone on that plane just wants to get to their destination safely and comfortably.
Now that you know the basics of Airplane Etiquette, please share this with others! ✈️ Together, let’s start a movement to make flying a better, friendlier experience for all of us.
Happy travels! ✈️